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    July 06

    自由

    我不知道你是如何在这种环境下生活的,换了是我,我会崩溃,哪怕是在关心的外表下。
    跟成长环境有关吧,我自由惯了,受不得别人的束缚。可是老爸似乎在弥补过去对我缺少的约束,对此我真的很无语。
    作为家长如果不醒悟,只会让结果适得其反。顺从太久的心灵需要叛逆,这是很自然的事。
    你是个缺少自由的孩子,这让我一路来都觉得很委屈,不明白为什么我们总是在心惊胆战中交往。
    又有什么办法呢,日子久了,我习惯了,妥协了,这样的相处方式形成了。我也只会在力不从心的时候悲叹一两句。
    自由,得到就那么难吗。你有没有想过,你的选择应该由自己来作,而不是父母或者其他人。
    只是无论如何,你改变不了。你改变不了的。
     
    没有经济上的独立,就谈不上精神上的独立。这是我妈告诉我的。
    我开始慢慢了解到,什么叫人在江湖,身不由己。想要干自己喜欢的事,就要能先做不喜欢的。
    想要清高,先要庸俗。想要追求精神生活,必须先有物质生活。想要自由,先要牺牲自由。
    一切东西的换得都是有代价的。为了追求所爱,人总在牺牲。
    那些在梦想的指引下卑微生活的人,最终会找回尊严的。

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